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MY POLYGRAPH DATING QUESTIONS
A few things we believe you should know before you walk down the aisle. A word of advice: tread cautiously and have a graceful exist strategy! Reach your purpose, before you tie the knot, around your freedom
- Is everyone around you pressuring you to settle down?
- Are you in a rush to tie the knot ?
- Feel a little pressure from your peers to marry ?
- Saying, ‘Hey, what about Me?’
- Are circumstances building around you and in the back of your mind God is waving a warning flag ?
- Are you desperate to settle down?
- Who is talking whom into marriage?
- Is it something you want? Or is it something the other wants?
- Are you getting married to avoid something?
- Are you getting married in order to move away from home?
- Could Mr. Right today be Mr. Wrong tomorrow ?
- What is your vision of a marriage ?
- Does your partner share the same vision ?
- Do you currently have the resources to help you achieve that vision ?
- What would be the ideal wedding ?
- Do you feel incomplete as a single person?
- What are the benefits to getting married?
- What are the benefits to staying single?
- Marriage is not for everyone. In the bible we read, 1 Corinthians 7:9 · but if they cannot exercise self-control, let them marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion. NKJV
- Make a list of the characteristics of your targeted spouse!
- Are you getting married because you’ve always wanted to get married?
- What is your partner’s history in relationships?
- What can you learn from it? · Keep in mind we only are given half truths
- What can you learn from your partner’s parents?
- Are they divorced?
- Is marriage looked upon as a hit or miss, trial event?
- Are you planning a marriage or a wedding? Wedding is a single day, marriage is a lifetime
- How do intend to be happily married?
- How do you plan to merge: Faith, Careers, In-laws, Money, Children?
- Are you prepared to carry most of the load, should one become ill?
- Are you prepared to give up, · Family, · Friends, · Careers?
- If you don’t know whatyour needs are, you won’t know, what is good for you, in a relationship
- Have you made it clear, where would you draw the line in the sand, what is a ‘Deal breaker’, or are you waiting to find out after you are in a relationship?
- What is your graceful exist strategy?
- How many children do you want? Has that been made clear?
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